damn weather

so normally i would enjoy a good thunder/rain storm. love falling asleep to the sound of it. but here in kansas, thunderstorms are always a precursor to tornados, so instead of enjoying them i'm all freaked out. and i guess tonight we are on tornado watch or thunderstorm watch or something like that. and let me tell you, this thunder is freaking loud!!! made the cat jump off the bed, that may be because i jumped though! :-P

no updates on the male situation yet and probable won't be for some time!